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Why The Veil??

By George Gil

One would assume that the unexpected return of girls and women wearing the veil in Church and before the Most Blessed Sacrament would have been prompted by the older women who faithfully wore the veil in the fifties and sixties and for generations before. Not so! Ironically, the veil is being donned by young women who have seen the disastrous effect of radical feminism and are trying to return to some form of tradition and reverence in Church. The movement is growing across the United States.

Some are wearing the veil to express submission. Others may be wearing the veil to show a sign of reverence in the presence of the Most Blessed Sacrament. To be sure, the veil creates a distinct look of femininity that is reserved only for the house of God. There may be many more reasons behind the return to the wearing of the veil, but one thing is sure, behind it all is the individual effort to offer a truly feminine spirituality to God, whom they are trying to serve and honor in a more perfect way.

In the question and answer section of a popular Catholic magazine, a woman asked the question, “Why is it that women are starting to wear the veil again?” Maybe she thought that Rome wanted women to return to the wearing of the veil.

The question may be asked: “When and why did the Church change the teaching that a woman should wear a head covering while attending Church services? Answer: The Church has never changed its teaching. There is noting by the Magisterium stating that the wearing of the veil has been abolished. You may gasp and say to yourself, “I am sure this cannot be true! Why no one, except a few dinosaurs who cannot tolerate change, wears veils today. In fact we were even told that to wear the veil could be prideful in that, we would be “calling attention to ourselves.” Using this logic, one would be obliged to become a nudist if nudity became popular. And what about the first women to take the veil off? Did they not defy Church teaching with the express purpose to call attention to themselves? See how such statements sound sill when held up to logic. Who would ever have thought that one could commit the sin of pride by trying to be faithful to what the Church has taught for almost two thousand years.

On April 3, 1969 when Pope Paul VI promulgated the new Roman Missal reporters gathered at the Vatican and quizzed those who were announcing the new missal. One reporter asked, “Does the new Missal say anything about women wearing head coverings in Church?” The answer given was simply, “No.” Other reporters picked up the response and interpreted it that women no longer needed to wear any head covering in Church. Articles appeared in the secular press around the world, “Catholic women no longer need wear head coverings in Church.” That was a conclusion not even implied in the “No” answer. The Missal had never ever been the place where women were told to wear head coverings. Why should the new Roman Missal so state what concerned the rubrics for the priest celebrating Mass?

You may have been told that the veil was an old Jewish custom, which was a symbol of women’s oppression, coming from a people that treated women much like cattle. This statement was touted from the pulpit of a certain Catholic church at a wedding ceremony. The readings, which the couple had picked, dealt with the wife’s submission to her husband. The couple liked the reading, but the priest did not. Then there was the little, crippled lady who said that she had stopped wearing the veil years ago after a priest told her that she was already sick and the veil made her look sicker. (What happened to tolerance, diversity and Christian charity?)

When this little lady was informed of the true meaning of the veil she happily returned to wearing her veil, and she looks just fine. One priest said that women who wear the veil are women who are trying to act “holier than thou.” Response: “Is that not better than `worldlier than thou’ or `sexier than thou’?” Is there any wonder that so many souls have abandoned the veil and also the Church?

Church Teachings

As stated, the Church has never changed its teaching concerning women wearing the veil. The nearest anyone could come to this claim is that is was not mentioned in the new Code of Canon Law published in 1983. Those who use this mode of reasoning say that god Catholics are no longer obliged to wear the veil because of this fact. Those who are familiar with Canon Law know that it did not, in any way, say the women should not wear a veil. Yet, just for arguments sake, let us say that the new Canon would have stated that women should no longer wear the veil, which of course it did not. We would still have the period from approximately 1969 to 1983, when women throughout the United States were already abandoning the veil in direct violation of Canon Law.

Church law cannot be called upon to justify the abandonment of the veil since it had already been abandoned by many as early as 1968 when some wanted to disregard the Church on this. Many women were told that Vatican II initiated the change. Please read the documents to find it. It is not there! And since they, like most Catholics, depended on the clergy to educate, they were badly misdirected.

In 1973, a local Catholic paper reported that the ladies could throw away their hankies. (The word hankie was used to mock the wearing of the veil as insignificant.) The article was referring to a document from Rome stating that the veil was of minor importance. They conveniently failed to mention what prompted this remark. it was in response to liberals petitioning Rome to allow the ordination of women. Their argument was basically this: Since the Church allowed women to break Canon Law, Scripture, and tradition in the matter of the veil, they why not break the teaching of the Church concerning the ordination of women? (This is the normal consequence of unchecked disobedience; it is never satisfied.) As you can see, the statement from Rome concerning the veil was quite appropriate. The veil is of little importance when compared with the ordination of women. It is quite easy for a woman to rebelliously walk into a church without a veil, but she cannot rebelliously ordain herself. Such women will defy any law if it gets in the way of what they want.

Misinformation and twisted truths were not targeted at the veil alone; they were responsible in large part to the collapse of Mass attendance and belief in the Real Presence of our Lord in the Eucharist. Mass attendance has plummeted from 70% at the time of the Council to 25 or 30% today. No business could endure such a loss and survive; only the Church founded by Christ can endure it, but not without causing great suffering to the brothers and sisters of our Lord. It seems as though these twisters of the truth are hellbent on continuing their diabolical deception of the facts. 

“It is only a piece of cloth”

We were led to believe that the matter of the veil was an insignificant relic of the past. You may have been told that “It’s only a piece of cloth.” A statement such as this is hard for a theologian, much less the average Catholic, to deal with. So take a deep breath and I will demonstrate how one can logically respond to such subtle statements.

Visualize a mother and father who have just lost a son in battle, a son who gave his life in the defense of his country. These parents come upon a young man spitting on and burning the flag of the United states of America. How do you suppose these good people would react? Is it possible that they would be tremendously upset? Could You see how they could be upset? Even without losing a son, those who love their country would most likely be moved to anger. Then imagine the young man looking up, seeing their frustration and saying, “What’s the problem? It’s only a piece of cloth.” The young man would be accurate in saying that it is only a piece of cloth, but his statement would not be completely honest. The flag is being sat on and burned for what it represents, not for what it is made of. Now a person who neither loves this country nor hates it might be indifferent to the situation, but for those who have chosen sides on the subject, there can be in indifference.

Now let us move from the cloth flag to the cloth veil. The feminists hate the veil not because it is a piece of cloth, but rather for what it represents, that being submission. (See the article on “Submission” in the January-March 2004 issue). The hostility feminists have toward the God-established order in the home is manifested in their hatred of the veil, just as the young man’s hatred of his country is manifested in his hatred for the flag. Unknown to the vast majority of people is the fact that the feminists had their own public veil burning (more on this later).

To understand the significance of all this, one must realize that there are three groups that exist in most debates; with the veil, as with the flag, feelings run deep. We have those who hate the Godly order of the home; those who do not really care, possibly due to ignorance;; and those who know and understand why this Godly order is so important. The latter are in the minority. Yet, with proper education and the desire to follow God’s Holy Will, the home can be re-ordered, but not without a ;fight from those who have united themselves to this evil and materialistic world.

Facts to be Considered

In the new Code of Canon Law, Can. 21, we read: In doubt, the revocation of a previous law is not presumed; rather, later laws are to be related to earlier ones, as far as possible, harmonized with them. Dear readers, if the law concerning the veil had been revoked, which it was not, you would still have to harmonize with the later, which was to wear the veil. Then from Can. 27, we read: Custom is the best interpreter of law. The veil has two thousand years of being a custom to its credit. (The Rosary does not come close to that. yet who would try to discourage people from praying the Rosary? The misinformation concerning the veil is a sinister flight from a truth (submission) that is hated by some today as much, if not more, than the hatred some have toward the flag.

I would now like to share with you a few events that took place over the past thirty or more years to illustrate that this whole matter of the demeaning of the veil was a plot orchestrated by those who were determined to destroy; the family. Many in the Church were unaware of what was happening, and it remains the same today. Like many fathers in the home, many fathers in the Church do not see things happening until it hits them in the face. Even then they are still not sure what happened. (Married women are well aware of what I mean.) When the shepherds are preoccupied and are not vigilant, the wolves are there to take advantage of the situation.

Bishop Maurice Schexnayder, a holy bishop in the Lafayette Diocese back in the seventies, when referring to the veil picked up the Bible and read from 1 Corinthians 11. St. Paul wrote under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit about women at prayer wearing the veil. The Bishop said, “Now, this is the Word of God; the Church cannot change it.” Was Bishop Schexnayder correct or not? He later wrote to us and stated that he could assure us that the Church has never changed its teaching about the veil.

His predecessor when asked, “Is it a sin if a woman disobeys the Church’s teaching by not wearing a veil?”, replied, “It would be a sin if she knew what she was doing.” One could assume that the way to keep people from sinning is to keep them in ignorance. Few today are teaching. Most are just explaining things away as “non-essentials.”

Non non-essential has become a popular word today. When you hear it, please ask the user, “Just what is essential?” You see, when we relegate everything to be the status of non-essential, why should we belong to a particular church? We are all aware that one can go to heaven in any of the twenty-seven thousand different denominations, (if one is sincere, obeys the Commandments and not realize the Catholic Church officially has the fullness of the true faith to which one must belong and live by if he or she knows that truth). But to the non-thinking person one could conclude that the Catholic Church itself has become a non-essential.

What is happening in the Church is the same as what is happening in the home. By and large the father in the home has degenerated into a silly, fun seeking, uncommitted, dodger of responsibility. He has no vision of what a healthy family should be and is frankly not interested in finding out. We want to hasten to mention that not all fathers in the family nor all in the Church fall in this group, but many do. And here lies our problem. Rejection of the veil is just an exterior manifestation of an inner problem. Intelligent people know that truly successful people are those who do the thing that the unsuccessful thin is not necessary (Non-essential). One could avoid breaking any doctrine of the Church and still destroy his marriage. Catholics who have good marriages go far beyond the letter of the law. They go to the spirit of the law and are actually freed from the law, for they have risen above the law. This is what liberation truly is, rising above the law, not getting permission to break the law through unrelenting disobedience.

Fr. John A. Hardon, S. J. was a very holy man as well as an extremely intelligent theologian. He was a consultant to the Holy See for more than thirty-one years. Among the more than thirty books he wrote was “The Catholic Catechism.” Somewhere in the middle 90’s, we phoned Fr. Hardon. I asked him if women should still be wearing the veil; his answer was an emphatic, “Yes.” Could Fr. Hardon be wrong also?

Here is a quote from a bishop that most everyone will surely know, Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen. From his book “Three to Get Married” we read: “St. Paul speaks of Christ as the invincible Head of the body and this is because: `The head to which a wife is united is her husband’ (I Cor. II:3). It is very likely that the Divine Prohibition against women appearing in ;church with their heads uncovered is related to this idea.” Did the good bishop say “Divine Prohibition”? Wow! Now when we turn to the front of the book, we read, “Nihil Obstat John M.A. Fears, STD; Imprimatur: Francis Cardinal Spellman. The Nihil Obstat and Imprimatur are a declaration that a work is free from doctrinal or moral error and may be published. Wow! Wow! Wow! Could Bishop Sheen be wrong also? And what about the Imprimatur of Cardinal Spellman? Is the Cardinal wrong also? Well, there are people who are highly regarded that say the veil is to be worn. Try finding credible people like these who tell you that the law has been changed, and have them reveal the source of their information. Ask yourself this question. If the Pope wanted the veil dropped, why is it that all of our Presidents who visited the Holy Father in Rome are instructed to have their wives and daughters wear a veil? Be sure to keep in mind that, except for Kennedy, they have all been Protestants.

To further validate this point was the article in a popular woman’s magazine which told of a lady’s dilemma with the veil. This lady, the head of one of the feminist organizations, was telling of her papal visit with the then reigning pontiff, Pope Paul VI. She was told that she would have to wear a veil and a dress at her papal visit. She related that she had no problem with the dress, but she did have a problem with wearing the veil. She proceeded to explain how she and a friend combined a comb with a veil on top, structured in such a way that the veil would not touch her head. Unlike our good Catholic women, this feminist leader was well aware of the meaning behind the veil.

The Game of Words

One thing the liberals are really good at is the use of words for the promotion of their own destructive agenda. For instance, when they break the teachings of the Church they use the word “diversity”; when a faithful Catholic does something completely within the teaching of the Church which the liberals do not like, they use words like “divisive” and “non-essential.” Only you will decide to whom you listen; the fruits of your choices will manifest themselves in the quality of your life and that of your family. We generally get what we deserve. A good choice, good result; a bad choice, bad results.

Now let us bring this subject to a climactic closure. We have demonstrated that though too few in the Church defended the wearing of the veil, it is clear that it was disobedience that ruled the day and thrashed it. It has been demonstrated that neither the Church nor the Pope himself ever said that women should abandon the veil. The Word of God still stands. So, this being the case, from whom are our Catholic women getting their marching orders? Or another way of putting it is, who is most influencing our Catholic women? The answer can be found in the National Organization of Women (NOW) handbook.

Read carefully the following quotes from the NOW Handbook. It has some very interesting information that you truly need to know and seriously ponder. We read under A. Religion Resolutions, “Because the wearing of a head covering by women at religious services is a symbol of subjection with many churches, NOW recommends that all chapters undertake an effort to have all women participate in a “national unveiling” by sending their head coverings to the task force chairman. At the Spring meeting of the task force of women and religion, these veils will be publicly burned to protest the second class status of women in all churches. (Dec., 1968).”

Well, one must concede, these feminists were extremely successful in getting Catholic women to not only break Canon Law at that time, but to go directly against Holy Scripture. These feminists were truly bold, and their efforts have paid off for them, sad to say, to their own detriment, and that of all the women of America. Let us continue. “Take the lead in uniting women of all denominations and religious groups to work together to support efforts to recognize the right of women to be ordained in religious bodies where that right is still denied.” As previously mentioned, stopping a woman from rebelliously walking into church without a veil is impossible. Ordination is much more difficult a hurdle for them to jump. Thirty years have passed and they are still fighting, while our clergy (for the most part) have hoisted the white flag.

And last but not least we have this quote, “NOW will challenge the tax exempt status of the Catholic Church since it is lobbying against abortion law repeal (April 1971). As stated before, these nice little ladies had their own (flag) veil burning. Did you notice the attitude they held regarding our Catholic Church? Could you possibly be one of their misinformed followers? Why would any Catholic want to adopt a practice that was promulgated by such people? Finding a logical explanation to justify it would be quite hard.

A book I would strong encourage anyone to read is “Slouching Towards Gomorrah” by Judge Robert Bork. Under “Radical Feminism” we read: “Even the language of the movement mirrors the mood of fascism. The apocalyptic and hate-filled rhetoric of radical feminists expresses their eagerness to inflict harm. A radical magazine, using the acronym for the National Organization for Women (NOW), declared on its cover: NOW is the time to take back control of our lives. NOW is not the time to assimilate to bureaucratic puppeteers who want to control, degrade, torture, kill and rape our bodies, NOW is the time to drop a boot heel in the groin of patriarchy. NOW IS THE TIME TO FIGHT BACK. NO GOD, NO MASTER, NO LAWS.

Were you aware of all this? Do you think our good Catholic women would have abandon their veils had they been made aware of it? We think not!


In 1 Corinthians 11, St. Paul admonishes the women concerning the veil. The following is from The Jerome Biblical Commentary. explaining why St. Paul wrote that letter.

“Some Christian women, influenced perhaps by the liberal atmosphere of cosmopolitan Corinth and emboldened by the attitude of `the knowledgeable’ toward their freedom, were attending the assemblies without wearing a veil. Paul reprobates this behavior as unbecoming to a woman, because God has established a hierarchy, in both the natural and the religious spheres, in which the female is subordinated tot he male sex. This hierarchical subordination of the woman should be recognized in her behavior and dress. The veil is a symbol of this subordination.”

This took place 2000 years ago, and possibly many times since. We are definitely sure that it started taking place again in 1968. We just did not have a St. Paul to sound the alarm.

Well, thee it is, ladies. The ball is in your hands. You have been presented with just a few of the facts behind the abandonment of the veil. And we did not even touch on the respect aspect, which in itself would be a wonderful reason for a woman to wear the veil. It would take a book to cover all that could be said concerning the veil and its detractors.

Questions to Ponder

Why did St. Paul say women should be veiled, if it were not important? Why did the Church have the tradition of wearing the veil for nearly two thousand years, if it were not important? Why did the Church mandate it in Canon Law, if it was not important? Could the Church be truly holy and wise and yet mandate something for two thus and years that would be a sign of oppression to women? Do you truly believe that the Church was wrong for two thousand years and just in recent years became wise? If we are wiser and more knowledgeable today, why is it that in 1870, there were only 81 divorces per 100,000 married population, and today more than half of all marriages end in divorce? And finally, to the reader who disagrees with all of this, have you been reading the lives of the Saints? If not, read a few and then re-read this pamphlet. You will see thing differently.

Editor: We encouarge all members of the Fatima Family Apostolate International and readers of this magazine – to wear the veil when in the Catholic Church.


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5 thoughts on “Why The Veil??

  1. Dear Brother and Sisters in Christ Jesus,

    I am a married Catholic women. I belong to a Novus Order parish, but I love the Roman Latin Mass. Sadly, there is not one close by in my area, at least as yet. I am a conservative Catholic, traditional in many ways. However, I am not breakaway. I have stayed with the Church Christ founded even up to our present Pope Benedict XV1. Just thought I’d tell you that, because so many calling themselves traditional, seem to be schismatic about the validity of current Papal Authority.

    I just wore a chapel veil to my church for the first time this Sunday. I was the only one at my parish to do so. I got alot of looks apparently, but I only knew this because my husband told me so. I tried to keep my interior soul bound to Christ, and not be alert to my external surroundings. Except of course as not to fall, or stumble on my way from receiving the Holy Eucharist. The veil helped me stay somewhat more concealed to the world, and more there for Jesus. That is totally why I wore the veil, because of my love for Jesus, and my reverence toward the true presence of Christ in the Eucharist. My deference to the Lord, and my humility, and undying love for the love of my life, Jesus. That is why I wore the veil, obedience to Jesus. Obedience to the Cross, to the Word. The veil is an outward sign. I am truly honored to wear it at Mass, forever now to my last breath. The veil to me is an outward honoring, ofsomething so mysterious, and deep. Concealing an inward affection and love for Our Lord that cannot even be described to any justice in earthly human terms. I have tried to here, to help readers understand, the importance of Catholic women to have courage, and for any age women, young, middle years, or older, to stand up for the Cross of Christ, and do this small act of grace; wear the veil for Jesus. Catholic ladies have courage, even if you will be the only one at your church!


  2. Hi Thank you for visiting my site. The veil is a beautiful part of authentic Catholicism. One key point that you did not share is the veil is an act of submission to God and to your husband, because Christ is the head of the church and your husband is ln the image of Christ in the home. Many husbands do not deserve this act because they are not doing what needs to be done in the home. The article “The Veil” has free pamphlets at that can be ordered and given out to others.
    God Bless you on your journey
    John C Preiss

  3. I always or almost always wear the veil in a Catholic church. I agree with those who say that it is best if it does not attract attention – it does not have to be of intricate white lace. For me, a crinkled purple scarf from Sear does perfectly, it sits on the head well and I throw one end back. People may still probably look in my direction – okay. So they will think “this lady has a scarf on her head.” Big deal? 🙂

  4. I absolutely love all the information included in your article. I have been receiving questions from family and friends about my recent decision to veil that began after my six year old began veiling at Mass. I have been referring them to your page. Some of my family is not internet savvy. What are your provisions for sharing print copies of your article? Thanks again for such a wonderful post. It helped me along my journey to veiling and to submission to God, in general.

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