It is so difficult at times to be a true Christian when it comes to loving our enemies, but we must.   God is love.   In order to find true happiness in this life and the next, we must learn how to love our enemies.   First, we must pray for wisdom to love and pray for the grace to love.  No matter how great your hurt is we must love.   “Love thy neighbor as thy self”.  We must learn to love ourselves so we can begin to love others.  Pray and ask God to help you love your enemies and He will lead you to love those that you despise the most.  God is love.