During his Lenten season our faith should grow stronger.  It should grow because of our penance and sacrifice that we have committed to before the start of this special season.  If  we should wonder in our hearts how much to do in :  our marriage, in loving, in giving etc.  Look at a crucifix and that is how much we should care.  We are called to grow in love for our neighbor and to sacrifice for the betterment of others.  Pray, fast and do penance.  The crucifix will show your true devotion.