The men today have lost a sense of masculinity.  Many have failed to live up to the role of the leader, provider and protector.  A women needs a man like this, yet today their are few to be found.  True masculinity can be seen in the example of Christ, first He is an example of love and compassion.  Yet, let us not forget about the turning over the tables in the temple, He was on fire.  Also, he works with His hands as a carpenter.  Christ is a perfect role-model for true authentic masculinity.  Men wake up to the call and become the man you are supposed to be.  Invision your life and picture yourself as Maximus in The Gladiator,his family, his country was everything to him.  He laid his life down and as men we too should lay our lives down.